But there is hope! And the book "Honey, I don't have a Headache Tonight" may have answers to many of the questions we have! Sheila Wray Gregoire of http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/ is the Author of this book and several other great ones like it.
Here's the quick overview of the book:
"Honey, I Don't Have a Headache Tonight."
Help for Women who Want to Feel More in the Mood
An "Our Pick" from Today's Christian Woman!
It's 10:00 at night. He wants to start snuggling. You want to start snoring. He feels unloved because you aren't "in the mood", and you feel unloved because he only cares about one thing.
He says, "you’re never in the mood." She says, "You only think about one thing." It’s a conflict as old as time.
When it comes to marriage and the issue of sex, there are two opinions and mind-sets and all too often neither give much ground. It’s an emotionally challenging, physically driven dilemma that brings with it frustration, hurt feelings, anger, and even disrespect.
Women wonder why men were created with the switch always turned on, and men wonder why women were created with so many different switches and no instruction manual.
Romance. Intimacy. Sex. They are not the same thing, although they definitely go together and complete the "big picture." Men equate sex as their currency to feeling loved, while women need the emotional aspect to feel loved – two very different needs and therein lays the problem.
Filled with humor and practical advice, Sheila tackles these issues:
How change in the sexual relationship requires change elsewhere.
Why sex for women is often a "head thing."
How television is the biggest enemy to intimacy.
Why forgiveness and letting go of the need to be right is so important.
How self-image issues and past hurts can throw intimacy into a tailspin.
The repercussions of everyday energy zappers.
The threats to Godly sexuality.
The roadblocks of respect.
The cultural attacks on gender.
I am still reading this book, but so far she has a lot of great things to say on the subject. I can see it definitely helping with my attitude in certain areas. ;-) I think anyone who is struggling should read this book.
You want to read it for yourself? You can Go Here to buy it or any one of Sheila's great books!
Or you can win a copy right here! Sheila has graciously offered a copy of "Honey, I don't have a headache tonight" to one of my readers as well as an audio download of a talk she gave on the subject!
How to enter:
1. (mandatory) Go to Sheila's Site and let me know which of her other books you would love to read and why!
2. Follow Sheila's Blog (lots of great blogs!)
3. "Like" Sheila or My Life as a Married Girl on Facebook (1 entry each)
4. Follow Sheila or me on Twitter
5. Follow my blog
6. Put my blog button or Etsy button on your site (1 entry each)
7. Blog about the giveaway (2 entries)
8. Tweet about this giveaway. Be sure to include @katrinawelch and @sheilagregoire with a link to her site and this giveaway. (1 entry)
9. Listen to one of Sheila's Podcasts and tell me which one, and something you learned. (2 entries)
10. Sign up to receive one of Sheila's Newsletters and let me know which one you signed up for!
I will check all entries, and non valid entries will be deleted! Good Luck!
Giveaway is open to US and Canadian residents over the age of 18.
Giveaway will end on June 9th.
I was not paid in any form of cash for this posting.
I did receive free product samples to keep for my testing purposes for this post. I was under no obligation to write a positive review. All thoughts are my own honest opinion.
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